Pink Velvet Baby

Wednesday, December 31, 2008

2009, here we come!!!

This is our year, and it feels so good to say it!! While the year has flown by, it still seemed like another year left in limbo, and now we see the not only the light at the end of the tunnel, we can actually see the end of the tunnel.

So as we ring in 2009 here in Dallas, know I am wishing you and your family, health, happiness, prosperity, and hoping all of your dreams come true. Thank you for your friendship, good wishes and blessings!!

So......out with the old, in with the new!!

Hayden, we are coming as fast as we can.

Sunday, December 28, 2008

Here she is......December update, and it was all Mommy wanted for Christmas

Miss Hayden weighs 11 lbs and is 22 inches long now. She is growing like a weed. We think she is beautiful, and we grow more in love with her each day. I am pretty sure if you look in the 2nd picture that there might just be a little dimple there!!! Anyway, we were thrilled to get this before Christmas....it really was all Mommy wanted:)


Friday, December 12, 2008

12-25-08 will be a little more special this year.

Our hearing has been scheduled for Christmas day. We just received the email today, and I feel as though this moved along rather quickly. We are about a week behind Heather, so there is still hope that we might travel together. I am hopeful that Lisa receives a new referral this week, or first of next so that we can get her back on our timeline. We are all hopeful that we end up in Taiwan together.

We are also hoping that we get a new update next week. Hayden will have changed so much, and I am hoping that we might see a smile out of her. The dramatic fake crying was pretty cute, so I will be happy with just about anything in the update!!

Sunday, November 23, 2008

What now???

So now what?
Mostly we just wait now. We are hoping that we will get an update with pics, video and milestones, but we may not until next month. Our paperwork is there, and now we just wait to hear for our first hearing. But here is a step by step list of whats to come in the next few months. I did steal this from Lisa, and Heather....Thanks

HEARING: 1-3 MONTHS AFTER OUR PAPERWORKD GETS FILED IN TAIWANa) The family court office in the county where the child was born reviews the case/petition and a Judge is assigned to the case.b) The judge reviews and considers the case and schedules a "hearing". Hearings are handled differently depending on the circumstances of the birth family, the judge's schedule, persons representing the birth family and those representing the adoptive family. The time involved in getting a hearing scheduled depends on the judge's schedule (docket) and that of everyone else required to attend.Hearings can result in: The immediate decision to finalize the adoption (though this is rarely the case) or the judge may request more information (again, this is rare). Usually, the hearing simply provides the judge with more information about the case and allows him/her to rule on the adoption with confidence. Most often, the judge's decision (final ruling) happens weeks or even as long as months after the hearing.Time line for 1st ruling - 1 to 3 months after hearing.

2. Part I of Final Decree(First Ruling). Once the hearing has been completed and the judge has had time to review all the information, he/she issues the first part of the Final Decree. This is a short statement signed by the judge that is forwarded to all parties involved (social services organization on behalf of the adoptive family and the birth family) notifying everyone of his/her decision to finalize the adoption. This first part of the Final Decree must go to each party and there is a waiting period of 10 days before any further court action can occur. The birth family has until the end of this 10 day period to change their mind regarding the adoption. Once the 10 day period is passed however, the judge can make the final decree.Time line for 2nd Ruling - 2-6 weeks after the 1st ruling

3. Part II of Final Decree (Second Ruling). Once the 10 day waiting period is over (and the court staff finds time!), the second part of the Final Decree is forwarded to all parties. When the second part of the decree is received by your child's social service organization, the court process is DONE!Time line for official paperwork 2-4 weeks4. Household registration change and immigration requirements. Before the adoptive family travels, a lot must be accomplished by the child's social service organization. All court documents and background info on the child must be officially translated to English and submitted with certain paperwork to AIT. Also, the child must have his/her Visa medical exam which is forwarded directly (unopened) to AIT's immigrant visa office. At some point the child's guardian must file for a household registration change. The household registration is a file located at local government offices in Taiwan that contains certificates and information about each person in Taiwan. Your child's household registration is attached to his/her guardian's file until the adoption has been finalized by the Taiwan courts.Once the child has been legally adopted in Taiwan, the guardian files with the government office to remove the file from theirs and create a new file showing that the adoptive parent(s) are the new legal guardians.The household registration change takes a day or two or a week depending on the placing organization and the local government office.JOH families are typically given 1 to 3 weeks notice to travel. Adoptive Family receives travel date. Each organization in Taiwan is different in when and how they schedule a travel date. Some wait until all of the above paperwork is filed and then give the family notice to travel quickly. Some schedule the travel in advance, while they work at preparing the above documents.So.. that means that within 4-6 months we can travel to Taiwan to pick our girl up.

Monday, October 27, 2008

Monday again, and still waiting...

Here I sit still wondering what my baby girl looks like and when she was born. The weekends are terribly long, and most of the time I wish I could go to sleep and wake up on Mondays so that I can start waiting again. There is nothing to read on the board, there is nothing to read on the internet, I know the call isn't going to come, it just makes for a really long two days.

We worked on painting the full length mirror that will go in the corner behind the crib, and I think I will order a few more wall words. I want to order "dream" for the mirror. I finished the curtain panels, so need to install the medallions, and then I will be ready to hang the curtains. I think the curtains will make the room look so different, and really soften the room. Hoping the bedding will be ready soon as well. Hoping to go to Canton this week to get a dresser/changing table. Waiting to hear back from the furniture people to see if they think they have something that will work. I am anxious to get this in the room, as I really need the storage space and I want to hang some things on the wall, and don't want to do that until I have all the furniture exactly where it belongs. So we are making some progress on the room, and will post a picture when I get the curtains hung. I think it will really be the transforming piece.

Now I just need her to call!!!! pleeeeease, pretty please with sugar on top!!